Monday, October 31, 2016

Love Addiction Self Assesment: By Robert Frank Mittiga Recovery Coach

Love Addiction Self-Assessment

Please respond to the following questions with a “Yes” or “No” answer.(Please circle your answers.)

1. Have you ever tried to control how often you would see someone romantically?  .... Yes /No

2. Do you ever get “high” from romance, fantasy or intrigue? ... Yes/ No

3. Do you feel desperation or uneasiness when away from your lover or sexual partner? ….Yes/ No  

4. Do you believe that a romantic relationship will make your life bearable? ..... Yes/ No

5. Are you unable to stop seeing a specific person even though you know that person is destructive to you?  .... Yes/ No

6. Do you have difficulty being alone?  ..... Yes/ No

7. Do you feel that life would have little or no meaning without a love relationship?  ..... Yes/ No

8. Do you replace ended relationships immediately? … Yes/ No

9. Do you find that you have a pattern of repeating unhealthy relationships? …. Yes/ No

10. Does attention to your romantic relationships help you to cope with or escape from life’s problems? .. Yes/ No

11. Do you find yourself flirting with or sexualizing someone even if you do not mean to? ... Yes/ No

12. Do you ever find yourself in relationships you are unable to leave?  ..... Yes/ No.

13. Do you feel that you don’t want anyone to know about your sexual or romantic activities?  .. Yes/ No

14. Have you had sex with someone so that they will like you better or love you more?   …. Yes/ No

15. Do you make promises to yourself concerning your sexual or romantic behaviour that you find you cannot follow?  ….. Yes/ No

16. Do you believe that someone can “fix” you or “make it better”? ….  Yes/ No

17. Do you feel that you’re not “really alive” unless you are with your sexual/romantic partner?  … Yes/ No

18. Have you ever threatened your financial stability, reputation, or standing in the community by pursuing a love relationship?   …. Yes/ No

19. Do you believe that the problems in your love life result from continuing to remain with the “wrong” person? …..Yes /No

20. Do you often feel an instant closeness and complete connection with people you just met?  …. Yes/ No

21. Do you need to have sex, or “fall in love” in order to feel like a “real man” or a “real woman”?  ….. Yes/ No

22. Are you unable to concentrate on other areas of your life because of romantic thoughts or feelings you are having about another person?    … Yes/ No

23. Have you ever wished you could stop or control your sexual and romantic activities for a given period of time? ……Yes/ No

24. Do you feel that your life is unmanageable because of your excessive relationship needs?  …. Yes /No

25. Have you ever thought that there might be more you could do with your life if you were not so driven by sexual and romantic pursuits?  …. Yes/ No.

If you answer YES to at least 3 of the above questions then you may need further assesment and help. Call us today for personal and confidential HELP. PHONE us TODAY 0432 944 027

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